Learning to Re-adjust
I find that specific goals in life aren’t so straightforward as they require a new strategy, changing beliefs to a new way of thinking, seeking professional advice and sometimes just starting all over. I have watched others’ paths and tried to follow the same course of action, but I quickly lost the drive to continue. […]
A Good Attitude Helps
I came to the awareness that our attitude holds the power to steer out fate. Attitude can be defined as a settled approach to the way of thinking or feeling about something. It’s the paradigm shift that either makes or breaks you. For example, if you have a pessimistic/negative view of everything you do, then […]
Look out for the Future Self
There is a section dedicated to living in the ‘present moment’ in both self-help and what is referred to as positive psychology. Don’t get me wrong; there are benefits to being in the present instead of constantly ruminating on the past or being fixated on the future. But being in the NOW means more people […]
Stamina Training
It’s been six months… I have taken some time out to re-think, readjust and allowed time to sort of bring things together. I realised that life could be summed up as a marathon, not a sprint with highs and lows and those dreaded expectations. Success is difficult, you can be highly talented with a deadly […]
Organised Chaos
I like to think that life is nothing more than organised chaos. We have specific goals, aspirations, and tasks we need to achieve throughout our lifespan. But those wonderful ambitions we set are not always within our control; we can either delay things or procrastinate and leave the task until the last minute. Other times […]
Find your rhythm
Three things help us grow as people. Includes have structure, routine, and discipline. Everyone is driven by some type of goal on a daily, weekly, monthly, or yearly basis. If that be to book a holiday to Boogey or pay your annual TV license. It sort of needs to be done. Without these three principles, […]
Ride out the Storm
This blog is like marmite; some will love it, and others will hate it. But stay with me, and I will help you be on the side of ‘lovin it’. You’ve probably heard the famous proverb the calm before the storm, basically the dull moment before shit is about to go down. And we all […]
Short-term Game plan
In 2019, I wrote a book called ‘Get Rich and Die Happy’, which sound pretty mediocre. It was spiritual self-help dedicated to having a comprehensive strategy to coming out of the job you hate and doing something fulfilling that gives freedom and choice. Its origins started when I was in a corporate job and had […]
Adapting to Change
When I was ten years old, I read the book ‘who moved my cheese’ by Spencer Johnson. Probably one of the most accessible self-help reads, and I finished it in 30minutes. Deep in my subconscious mind, I understood that change was an essential aspect of life. Otherwise, I would become stubborn and stagnate my growth. […]
Good working relationships
The rules of Life, by Richard Templar, states to keep problems under your hat. This basically means that we don’t tell people all our problems in a working environment, only people we trust in our private life, including family, friends, or even your therapists. However, a few people make the mistake of sharing their issues […]